Friday, January 28, 2011

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fights are never good things. of course...sometimes they might not be bad things, but all the same, nobody likes them.

Fights can hurt, fights can burn, fights are like hot coals ready to burn if given the chance.

we dont' mean to hurt the ones we love it just happens, sometimes we wish we hadn't but we do anyways.

one may say you're being nosey the other will say they were helping a friend, are either of them wrong? no, are either of them right? possibly. they both see it from their own perspectives, and that's what starts the fights. no body has the same perspective and that will stay the same. but we can't hate each other because we have different perspectives. but many of us do. we can't stand to be around people who don't think like we do. and if there is by some rare chance that we actually like someone who doesn't think like us we quickly find a reason to hate them so we don't get shunned by others.

fights can be good, and fights can be bad. we all need to look at the real reason we fight, and if it's even worth while for the reason we're fighting for. weather we feel wronged in some way or not. it's better to look at the big picture then rather to lose a friendship over something silly.

but not everyone will think like that. Why? because we know it's right and we don't want to. because nobody else will do it if we do. but there are people who do it, but some of us just don't rationalize and see what we're doing until it's too late.

forgive the person who wronged you, perhaps they had a good reason to do it. or maybe it's possible someone has a quick temper and can't think until afterwards? either way we all must take a deep breath and look at what we could have if there were indeed no fights. but that's only in a perfect world right?

why not start out and begin to make your world perfect? it takes one person to get something started, it takes courage to put it in motion.

~Falcon